The driver seat carries with it the most room for regret. When someone else shifts the gears of your life, you can wonder what might have been, but not as much as when you're the instigator of change.
Bon Iver is a great band provided you're in the mood for laid-back, relaxing music.
I found that it's near impossible to tire of watching the movie Elf. Why hasn't Hollywood capitalized on a sequel yet?